Don’t you love it when you appear to have it all together? It’s a great feeling until you go home and realize that it’s all an illusion. You are as messed up as the next person.
I have a wonderful friend who thinks I’m an expert at parenting and “wifery” because she must have noticed the one or two times my kids said “yes ma’am” or did something thoughtful or a tender moment between me and my husband. My kids are wonderful, but they are kids. They are like any who messes up, has a bad day or doesn’t live up to the expectations around them. What makes a precious kid even precious-er is how they deal with it. Shawn and I do love each other to pieces, but we know how to scatter those pieces too. I tell my friend that we’re just like anyone else…our kids tell us “no” sometimes and I give my lovely husband dirty looks from time to time.
However, I do have the ultimate link to wisdom…our Heavenly Father. He’s the ultimate love-giver (I wanted to say lover, but that just sounds weird) and parent in all the land. I also have some helps from the blue planet. One of my favorite is called iMom. I know I’ve shared about the practical website before but here it is again. I get daily emails from them. Some I read, some I skip. This week, I got a doozy that ANY parent would find useful! The subject-back talk. Unless your children are mute, then this is something I’m sure you deal with. And I assume that even a sweet, mute child finds ways to accomplish this universal childhood trait. Here’s the link.